by David Brenneman
"For am I now seeking the favor of men, or of God? Or am I striving to please men? If I were still trying to please men, I would not be a bond-servant of Christ." Galatians 1:10
A deep inner cause of anxiety that many people wrestle with comes from a desire to prove themselves- especially to others.
The things they do for acceptance seem unending-the ways they
dress, change their appearance, buy houses they can't afford, act
out, engage in illicit activities, strive for power, and seek out social
status. And they do it all because they are concerned about what
others think. They are constantly worrying about how they stack
up, so they work harder with longer hours and overschedule their
lives in an effort to impress others with their productivity and performance-or at least to satisfy their own internal need for success.
Is this you? Understand that Jesus tells you that all that truly
matters is your heavenly Father's opinion about who you are. If
He approves of you, that's all the endorsement you need. He gives
you your identity and an inner beauty that far surpasses anything
related to what you might wear, own, drive, or live in. As for per-
formance, what more does your heavenly Father expect than that
you do your best? You are responsible to work wholeheartedly in obedience to Him, honoring Him with whatever you do.
Jesus, thank You for always accepting me. Help me to
embrace my identity in You. Amen
-Trusting God with Today, Dr. Charles Stanley.
Worldly opinion, whether it's in the grand scheme or our own tiny bit of the world, seems to matter way too much to too many people.
Getting that plaque from YouTube.
Getting that next promotion.
Getting to be the one caught on video doing that next heroic deed.
For some already somewhat elevated theirs is how do they keep what they've achieved?
It's taken too much of my own life to get to a place where the opinions of people are nowhere near where they used to be.
As Dr. Stanley wrote all too often we're striving for approval from others.
We who are in Christ should be living in the truth that we are His approved.
We don't need the praise and approval of others when our Father in Heaven, the Lord Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit already do.
There really is a peace that passes all understanding when we let go of that particular type of stress.
It's much easier to live life without that false sense of pressure upon the mind and heart.
All that I need to be sure of is that my walk with my Savior is where it's supposed to be. That I give of my best as unto the Lord. That I love the Lord my God with all my heart, mind, soul and spirit. That I love my neighbor as myself.
Statistics are nice and all but they don't define us. We should never apply the world's standards of success to success in the eyes of God.
My continual thought concerning even this blog is to praise God for what He's done and is doing with it. Those statistics aren't mine they're His. It's entirely what He's doing with it.
Our lives are not our own, we were bought with a price, the shed blood of Jesus Christ. What we do in the body is to be as unto the Lord. So the results should be of that caliber. Our obedience should speak volumes without saying a word.
"Conduct yourselves with wisdom toward outsiders, making the most of the opportunity. Let your speech always be with grace, as though seasoned with salt, so that you will know how you should respond to each person." Colossians 4:5-6.
"A gentle answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger. The tongue of the wise makes knowledge acceptable, But the mouth of fools spouts folly." Proverbs 15:1-2.
"Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth, but only such a word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment, so that it will give grace to those who hear. Do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you." Ephesians 4:29-32.
We live with these things in mind...we shouldn't be concerned with what others think about us.
Any plaques, awards, certificates, crowds, none of these things will matter when we stand before Jesus to give an account of our lives.
How we lived, what we did for Jesus, these are the things that will matter.
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart And do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your paths straight." Proverbs 3:5-6.
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