Not just next to me.
If I try to handle people on my own I will fail. If I try to handle any part of life on my own I will fail. "Apart from Me you can do nothing".
It's not my hands not my vision of me.
You will get to the point of being numbed.
Just doing what seems to work with no feelings behind it.
Paul told them that things like factions would happen in the Church. Differing opinions. It would be through examination that the will of God would be seen.
If we are to be Disciples. And as I have said on other occasions, the Jewish blessing of a new Disciple. "May you be covered in the dust of your Master".